Prayer son (2 ½ years) - since he got a little sister three months ago - much changed, and often a cold (runny nose ), has also not such a great enthusiasm and joy more crying a lot. This wine is often done after an outburst or a fight with me or with my husband at noon today we were all walking together go, so you have to wear that too, that was a big problem for him. Then my husband wanted to help him lift the fallen runner. After his presentation of Papa that may not just the mom. And it tells us also angry and screaming. Then, when my husband picks up the wheel anyway, because I'm busy with the little daughter, the situation escalates, he screams, is apathy, throws himself on the ground, etc. How should we conduct ourselves in such situations, of which there are very similar in form many are? 
your son seems to me at first a very sensitive child. If you look at the different levels, it is possible that he is jealous and with the situation, to share his parents do not have to agree. This may be natural. However, you also speak of his constant colds and tantrums with crying. When a new creature comes to earth, it brings in not only new sensations and restlessness, but also new energy into the family. It may be that your son learns by sensory overload and the energies around you can not really assign, but is not oblivious. Thus ersich feels misunderstood, or quickly understood the charms not know. It would be great if you or your husband a fixed time in the day (even though it is only 10-15 minutes) with her son away from the "baby situation" could spend. This time is important to convey to the child on the one hand, "You are too important," and the other to have time for observations, which employs your son. Your child is 2 ½ years old. Thus, simple game situations better than a questioning of the child. Especially helpful is the book "Angels symbols for Children", which in a "game time" can be installed. Let your child draw a card and read him the story in a comfortable, cozy atmosphere. See the book on the respective icon impetus for what is the real theme of your child as well as questions for self-reflection. Then talk to your son what he does with this Symbol want to do: put under the pillow, always carry with you or put this symbol as needed on a body part. Show your child that you are trying to understand it! (photo: Beate Gliedt, Mallorca) would like What I is the fact that her son, has since announced his sister to a different place, a new position in the family. This change can feel like to have fallen out of a nest. So my proposal, this new order within the family with the power of the angels is to strengthen and symbolically aware an "angel family nest building. It's easy: take a sheet on it
paper and draw a heart. Then, the map set "Healing Angel icons 1-49" take the hand. In one heart rounding, place the symbol of "Archangel Zadkiel" and on the other to "Archangel Chamuel. The apex is suitable angel symbol map No. 8 "Angels direction and goal." Now it goes to the very personal energetic strengthening. Therefore, you write to the half a heart with your name date of birth, the other half of the heart with the name of your husband's birth date. Leave
include the name and date of birth of your son and next to the name and date of birth of his sister. Then pull for each individual symbol of an angel card and place them on each name. Then leave at least 2 weeks. (Brigitte Heynen, Switzerland) The little man protested, of course, since he was 2 1 / 2 years, "the king in the house" and now the attention of the parents have to share. That just hurts. I think with much love and help of the angels can relieve the pain first and resolve it with the whole time then. I would advise you 2 to 3 times daily to create a ritual, a time (so far it is possible to find the baby), which belongs only to your son. About bedtime or in the afternoon when the baby sleeps. During this time you could tell your son self-invented (and tailored to him) short stories, the angels summon deliberately and with your son about it something to ask (ask your son what ideas he would do so), set up an angel in the corner house, usw.Ihr son should just get the feeling again "Mom and Dad still love me just like before."
Also, I would recommend for your son, the angel-oil-fired combined cycle No.26 "Norael" (shocks and fears). It is used when a child feels unloved or misunderstood. It also soothes a lot.
The "angel symbols for children," you could offer your son. If he wants, he can draw every night before falling asleep and an angel to sleep.
with the "angel symbol cards 1-49" could you put this subject to an angel group. (See its Book). Visualize yourself whenever you think of that come back in peace and contentment your family and trust that the angels will help you. I wish you all the best. (Susan Seger, Austria, drei.at susanne.seger @)
for the little big, it is a dethronement, when a younger sibling comes to this world. "I'm not alone, I have to share mom and dad. Especially now, the breast is not as much time me and the little sister is always carried around. "There is yet to be jealous. With 2 ½ years we can say that yet, your son shows his discomfort with tantrums.
mom take you outs to be with your son, you do things together, which both makes it very fun. Then your son for you alone entirely. Dad, you live with your son the male energy. In the forest, building huts, hammering in the workshop and / or take him in your life, you show him your everyday life. This helps when cutting the cord. Insert an additional protection circuit angel card set from the "healing angel symbols" and spray a bit of the angel-aura-essence "Archangel Chamuel" in the apartment. Good luck. (Alexandra & Aaron Britschgi, Switzerland, www.vikubu.ch)
There is a big change that your son's going through (and you yourself, too). His well-known well-ordered World has changed completely. There is at once a little sister that needs a lot of attention, which is quite often on the arm of his parents, "I guess also, especially with mom (which is quite normal), and he feels the edge pushed, perhaps afraid of being not loved. But as he now all of these feelings can not express in words (that make even adults often do not), he reacted with tears of helplessness, rage, etc.
Be patient with him (and with itself) can you at half time get used to his sister and the new family constellation. Show him that he is just as important as his sister and is just as loved. Maybe it's possible that you spend as a mother always fixed times alone with him (if the baby is sleeping evtuell), so remember that your son, mom is now just there for me. Tell him ever again as she loved him. And if he cries, be there for him, take him in the arm (if he allows it) and let him feel that he is loved. Tears help defuse tension and often bring relief. I have here in the Kindergarten always been my experience when I put the children "only" and I think for them, as it often needs no explanation, why the child has been crying for now.
to the tantrums, I would say listen to your heart: it is perhaps possible to follow the wishes of the child and to leave as the bicycle lift from Mom (I assure you, he will therefore not dance around the next few years on the nose) If it is not, however, goes then I would do it like wine: for the child to be there and tell him. "I can understand that you want the love, but it is unfortunately not it is right that you are angry, but it does not change anything the thing! " To show your son that he is taken seriously, "despite" little sister.
write: ... this afternoon as we were all walking together, so you have to dress well, that was a big Problem. Was it really so? All wanted to go for a walk, and your son? We adults tend to fast times to decide just something that we think that it is right for everyone. Perhaps your son was the middle of a game that important to him (= work) was outside for you but just looked like a game. What about you when you are taken out of your current work?
:-) I realize that every time that the children know at the present time very well what they want, what is good for them, and if we take our time adults to go along with it and follow our hearts, we can quite wonderful new way to go with them. Put yourself heart and your relationship with your child. Feel free to also contact me directly. A nice greeting. (Anke Quade, Germany, anke.quade @ web.de)
As for your son: the first allows you massage your son with the Engel Combi Essence Nanael "about 3 weeks every day around the navel (solar plexus ).
You may use the angel-aura-essence "Archangel Uriel" for your son. Organize a fixed time every day that you devote your only son. Maybe every day in the late afternoon, while the father or the nanny with the baby for a walk takes.
your son should know that the "Mama's exclusive time". Make They come and chat, paint,, snuggle with him. Listen to him when he tells of his troubles and let him know how you feel when he throws a tantrum (which in truth only an extreme call for love). Children openness does very well. Also, a regular "men's" who brings her husband to the son would be useful.
very important point: Involve your son in the baby care. Let him unpack the diapers and "sort" in the closet or out looking for a romper suit for his sister. During the bath he can caress and assist in drying. Explain to him that he had once so helpless was. Look at baby pictures together from him. Emphasize also how much his little sister has been looking forward to him and what he can teach her to show everything, and if it is larger again.
Repeat again and again how much they love him. Tell him that your heart is huge and that all have room.
as default drive for your household with children, I can give you the book "Angels symbols for Children recommended by Ingrid Auer. Do you work with it. Similarly, a standard equipment, the angel-aura-essence "Norael" belongs. It soothes babies and young children and gives them a sense of security.
Last but not least, I have very good experiences with Engel's personal icons of Ingrid Auer made. You could make a can for your son so that he gets angelic energies that are tailored to their personal needs and help it transition to the new family situation.
I wish you all the very best! (Manuela Luncer, Croatia, www.light-love-healing.com)
