For some time I'm in the crossfire of my dear relatives. Who find that my daughter Maren (8 years old) too much to spoil. It gets much, we are doing very well financially, and I think the child should not go worse than the parents. Sometimes it is really outrageous and downright calls that they get new clothes or toys. Here you always hear and read that one should treat his children quiet. I know right now is not anymore what is right and wrong. What do you advise? .jpg)
Treat is something beautiful, we are not all like spoiled? Pamper must happen but always on the material plane? If Lara is replaced by permanent new toys, they can not even properly enjoy it. It needs more and more material is quenched to the inner desire of pampering. Why not even a foot massage do with a beautiful angel combo oil? (With an angel expert, can you trust to be tested. Or read a good history together, going to movies. Or a walk now in the summer, eat ice cream to go. There are many different variants. This pampering, take your time and attention To give is a wonderful feeling of inner happiness that is priceless. Have fun exploring them. ! Best regards ( Image: Alexandra & Aaron Brito, Switzerland, www.vikubu.ch) Yes, it is right that we should treat our children. Please see your pampering the right balance. My family is financially. Our three children were also very much. However, I have not always bought them everything they wanted. The older children, the greater the needs and demands are anyway. Eventually comes a time where you want to meet those requirements or no longer can. Then it is often difficult to Emergency brake on. If you see this point, there is no STOP. From the age of about ten years there will be more violent. Know the children by then no NO, it is difficult to them to make this plausible at this time. I have my children, it shall declare that I told them: "Now this dress, then the computer game, new soccer shoes, although the others were not really old, ... and then 18 for graduation a plane or a yacht? "And my children have had to laugh. They saw a lack of boundaries of their wishes. They have graduated - without a plane. We spoil our children (thank goodness grown up already) with love, affection, conversation, time, understanding and attention.
The pampering with material goods was with me rather set sparingly. Children should learn that they are just as valuable and lovable, if they do not always get everything they want.
Try to make your dear daughter understood, if you deal with her that the baby out with the old toys can play just as well, that with the "old" clothes (which are not really old) as nice and sweet looks like. I wish with all my heart that you will find the standard by which all parties are satisfied. You can find it, I am convinced. Much love. (Silvia Lichtenegger, Austria)
I dissolve in my answer from the earthly plane of observation of parenting. Viewed from a higher level, we are not "random" in the same boat: Parents and the Community Kind.In a family is our deepest desire to grow together in this life, to develop, to gain experience to assist us in our infinity of Being put "on". To this end we look for a "context" of - cultural, emotional, material.
It is an exciting question of what is now our job as parents, especially in the context of what we call today as "Vewöhnen. It often happens that some adults think Children must "be cured" and soon enough prepared for the "real life" and that it would not help them if we too "used" for them, remove them problems and they "coddle" - in their environment, at school, with friends, relatives etc.
Here I can clarify the position - a child can never be enough to love, intimacy, presence, support, trust. Another thing it is comfortable with material things. We adults often have a tendency to express our affection
with material things and "prove" too. "As a token of my love I give you ... "(Eg a piece of jewelry).
No gift of this world is on a par with, what we want to express, with what love is. Thus, it is not a gift of love and no reward.
This is what we can give to our children (should) be. And as for all that which we are able to give our children ... because we are able (how beautiful the language in this particular theme plays) - if we can afford
us because we have the power, then it would also an approach to our children to show a different way of dealing with it: Instead of x.te unnecessary thing from a discount store - nice to appreciate Things to buy, reparierfähige
and sustainable products. Instead of supermarkets with low-price deals with the health food store products to support on site. Instead of a long journey, which is possibly at the expense of the environment, leave the country and its people to choose
beautiful holiday destinations in their own country and to support tourism at local level (domestic). Rather than constantly
a new phone, video game, Barbie, etc. maybe a sponsor for a child of the 3rd World, etc. etc. If a child chooses a
incarnation, is embedded in a life of wealth and property - then, not least because it would make experiences with this environment "Deal" ... - so I see very clearly our responsibility as parents, to exemplify this to the children and to teach. to "support" And do not continue thoughtless consumption, fashion trends to exploitation of nature and man.
Thank you for your question dear Karla, I find it "remembers" - to the essentials. The essence of the being of this life. (Daniela Hutter, Austria, www.energy-the-new-zeit.at)
course would be for his child the best. Children are certainly a very different relationship to money or to "prosperity." As for us adults can be important, perhaps, does not have the same degree for the Child apply. Children need first and foremost, for security and orientation, the love of "rounded" is. You see, the main pro-development policies are not paying with money or toys. Children take the situation of course, gladly, and not voluntarily. Remove the child is learning too much too, too little responsibility. Too many toys is too overwhelmed and too much ballast for the soul and lets the needs of the child are constantly rising. If I myself do not know how I'm doing something good for myself, I can not know how I can do something good for others.
is further noted that while the children so that an experience is taken to be independent. How does it feel to work out something? How does it feel to feel limits? How do I define my goals, rather than getting served the achievement of these goals now? For children there is a great feeling their needs are from efforts to breastfeed.
If your child but this was so used to so far, make the situation not abrupt. Your child would no longer understand the world. Take some time to cuddle, reading, etc., to once the main needs to satisfy. Transfer your child then small tasks, such as "Deck the table once you today, then together we are faster and I can read you something." In addition, you can have your child with the angel symbol No. 9 Dunael "Forget the other does not" support your child by putting it under the pillow or show him as the symbol can still be used for other purposes. The history of the symbol associated advertises itself as reading history in particular. Treat your child to the heart level! (Beate Gliedt, Mallorca)
parental work time was one of my favorite topics ..... I could fill pages. Linked to this time, with the angels and masters, I notice that when I changed the type of advice. I am convinced more and more that parents are connected with the spiritual world, to all the knowledge of what children of the new time need. I therefore invite you, a pulse to the spiritual world, on a trip. Are you ready? I invite you, the card set, "The symbols of the Masters and the Archangels, 49 keys for the way in de Cup," the map of Mary and to refrain from Hilarion himself. Both cards look, "photograph" with the heart and close your eyes. Before your inner eye is a space which is now just right. I invite you to look at this 100% safe space around. May well be that you see the icon of Mary and Hilarion in space or feel. This force breathe easy. They are also in this room. Can you see yourself? There is also a seat for you. Welcome! In be well received, you are visited by Mary, who greets you with all of their love. Just feel and enjoy. Maria will give you all the love, the care that his Repealed, this carried his mother ... all of these forces that are for internal strengthening food. Feel the power, this love? Need more? Maria takes place next to you, so to speak. They still receive visits from Hilarion. He is a champion of truth and honest self-knowledge. Hilarion will contact you. Can you feel his power? He also takes place. Mary and Hilarion open up the space where they can provide all the educational issues. You can also ask: What does my daughter really? Please take your time for the interview. If you find that you begin to think you can ask for answers also in pictures. Does the concentration after, it's usually a sign to end the call and to get back into everyday consciousness.
Ev. You may have the most important thing you've seen or heard, write them down. Them a good "Continue". (Brigitte Heynen, Switzerland)
The love of a mother to her child is so great that you want to take the child as often as possible joy and do him good. Nevertheless, the demands of your child a sign that it was too much. It is important also in material things to find a middle ground. Failing that, there is the risk that the child is from a very unhappy man. During my many years as a teacher I have observed repeatedly that children who get a lot more than the others, say this also, and thereby make themselves to outsiders. Our "new children" need a lot of freedom, but also limits.
The statement "One should treat his child," said beams are the emotional side. Previously, you cry babies, so as not to spoil. Today you do not do that anymore.
If you want to take angel symbol cards to help to find the middle way easier, I would advise you to use the symbol cards a virtuous circle to lay on the subject and draw for himself a symbolic map of the Buchset "Healing Angel transform symbols". This map is the day you can wear on the body or to take the matching essence. With your child, you could work with the "angel symbols for kids' play / so it can accept the change easier. The angel-aura-essence "HARIEL angel" could be good for your child.
(Susan Seger, Austria, drei.at susanne.seger @)
you are confused right now because you feel that something is out of balance: The relatively young daughter is "outrageous claims" and your really well-intentioned approach to Topic "Wish fulfillment" does not seem to bring the hoped-for result: a happy and a happy daughter. On the contrary, it appears to be an unhappy girl who always wants more. How so, you ask?
The happiness research has found that if you get a wish fulfilled, to a certain period of time to be happy. Then you get used to it and the happiness decreases. To activate it again, aiming it at the next request, and if this is true, the "happy" time has been significantly shorter. Meaning, it starts a quest for happiness, which is accessible through the purchase of new things / toys trying to achieve.
Become aware of what is going on, not The point is that it "will go as good as you, the grown-ups" of your daughter, but it is important that you mess up something: happiness / satisfaction is achieved by attention and devotion and not by the accumulation of material paraphernalia.
Please no mistake: these days suggests an any advertising or media such as happiness has to look and what to buy all his children, so that one has earned the title "Great Mother".
It's not about the topic of "good mother" or "bad mother" but the fact that you are from the voice of your heart are removed and have followed your intuition not to long.
1) Less is more! They do for the happiness of your daughter infinitely more if you say often times a resounding no, and deflect her a material request. Take some time for them instead.
2) Invest in companies, not in things. A company, such as a joint visit to the zoo is much more than happy memory in my heart, as the Barbie doll number 5
3) Make your daughter aware, that life is infinitely more than the things you can buy in shops.
you tell her about angels, creatures of nature, assume that accompanies is in life. That gives her roots and they will let themselves in life is not so easily "umpusten" when time is blowing a strong wind.
As support I recommend the book: "Angels symbols for Children" from Ingrid Auer. For you to get back in contact with the voice of your heart, the essence master "Lady Rowena". All the best! (Manuela Luncer, www.light-love-healing.com)
