Do I ask my children?
My husband has separated from me when our common dream child (born the end of 6th month, the first 18 months were very hard with him) is 2 1 / 2 years old. Now he is four, has little motor problems since birth and I am going for physiotherapy every week with him. Although I am not too comparative Mom, I can feel the pressure from other mothers (and ex-husband) is growing: Other 4 year olds begin to read and write, my little ones interested in but not yet. He needs such as diapers even at night and I was wondering if I should be tougher, calling him more "educated" and should be. My heart cries out against it. I spend a lot and I do not know how I can best come into my middle. Can you give me some advice? (The Reader's request is given much reduced). Dear P., your request was quick to recognize that this is how you described yourself well, is just around three things: the pain of separation, lack of energy and the development of the child. I would like at this point us directly to the relevant things and connect them as a "combination-Tip," as it would be too long to respond individually to each of these topics. For personal service in combination with an energy-treatment would be useful. Injuries, Released, and lack of energy can thus can be directly addressed. Appropriate people and locations are under mounting home / partner to find. Previously, it is still possible to manually work with the Engel Combi Oil No. 22 (Doriel) to reduce shock, processing, changes in the lives and fears. I would put her child as the child support Symbol No. 4 (Caniëls) under the pillow. Background issues that can show you the symbol you see the book "Angels symbols for children" on the page 109 The oil and the children can icon for an extended period on a group photo (mom and child) to the bond between mother and Child support for energy. All the best! (
Photo: Beate Gliedt , Mallorca, on Facebook)
Dear P., I am now quite spontaneously and directly to you. I would like to ask you again, your question that you sent to us to read. Ask yourself then once WHERE AM I? WHERE I AM? What am I FOR MY WELL-BEING? Permit you not a second here to think about whether you're selfish, selfish or a bad mother.
I feel your heart, your worries and your fears of making mistakes, not to be recognized. Your self-doubts and your injury. Look, everything in you rested. Your knowledge, peace, your strength and your son teach you every day. He even reflects you and just intuitively you feel it too. Your free child lives before you as it is to accept people and situations, value-free, he sees with the heart, it makes no difference.
Do not worry about his motor skills, he is only four years old, you and trust your intuition and try him not to compare with other children.
Every child is an individual and we should focus: on individual care. When writing, I feel that your son very well, "clear" comes and he has a great mom to help him carefully and lovingly.
You're just tired, because you have so much trouble, everything to make it right. Just try very confident to do everything the way it makes sense for you, without fear of what others might think.
It is so slow time, make you own way. You have done a lot for your son and yourself this somewhat neglected. Your focus is only on his welfare, but your well-being should still be on his, he learns from you. Does he see a balanced mother who takes time for him, he will learn to accept this and this look also for his life as "normal".
Become aware of your dreams and wishes and try to make each day new space. You may find the time when your son is in the care of children, walk or listening to a meditation CD by Ingrid Auer. Get in touch with your soul, it is the voice deep within you that you can only hear when it is quiet around you. 'll Get you the card set by Ingrid Auer, entitled "Angels symbols 1 - 49 Key to the angelic world. You can intuitively draw a card, they will show you the route or leg protection circuits for you and your son (more information at http://www.ekonja-verlag.com/de/downloads/downloads-schutzkreis.html). When working with the cards you should be self-critical, whether in the protection circuits generous in your thoughts and wishes. And await with interest what changes in your life in the coming weeks and months. Give your reflection every day to smile and say: "I am a loving mother and a wonderful woman." I wish you all the very best. Be embraced! (Christine Poignie, Mallorca, on Facebook)
I can only congratulate you, how well you do your thing, how much energy you invest (which is not of course) and how well you connect with your inner voice. Listen to your intuition more and everything will be fine.
It's okay to give your son all the time for its development. The less pressure you and make it yourself, the better and the better it will advance its development. It is not necessary to read and write even four years to learn. If a child wants the (some children really want from it), then it is fine, if not, just as well. Many children who can read and write already bored in school and lose the joy. Also I've seen. Her son wants to do the things he can do well. He is "out of the belly" and rightly so. The right time for activities that he knows we still have not come by itself and then he will also do this with joy. Please note there are at least two years to enrollment, the is very, very much. During this time your son enormously to learn as much as development surges come ... To come to
energy and support to return to your center, I would recommend the following: a virtuous circle with the angel icon cards 1-49 set for each topic (http://www.ekonja-verlag.com/de/downloads/downloads -schutzkreis.html). Disconnect also a symbol map for yourself, you are dealing with the affirmation of the card and sleep for a few weeks later. The combination essence Angel No. 2 "Nanael" (Emotional emergency) and the Angel Aura Essence URIEL might do you good.
For your son I would recommend the children angel icons. He can also always draw a symbol map on their backs to sleep on it. Apply this over a longer time period. Therein lies the solution to deep-set blocks and he is so much to learn faster / can, without any pressure.
One should of course also think that from the birth and the period afterwards when both you and your son is still a lot to resolve. For these topics, there are wonderful angel angel oils or essences.
To clean up your relationship with your ex-husband energetic, you could define a cutting circle (http://www.ekonja-verlag.com/de/downloads/downloads-cuttingkreis.html). Trust your instincts and continue to pass off many Incriminating to the world of angels! Everything, all the best! (Susan Seger, Austria, drei.at susanne.seger @ / on Facebook)
love P., in Buchset "angel symbols for children" is the angel Midael. His message is: "You're OK". If you like, you can take the image at hand and then read on. When I read your question and then asked me what I could probably pay for an answer, came next. Let's play a game angel! Midael gives you his glasses ... which has even the look "I'm OK, my life is ok." Angels are so short-sighted in the past the tendency to see :-) / she does not hold (also finished) and in the future they do not (still does). Sun Midael looks just the now. With the eyes of angels looked Midael, how are you now, dear mother? What would you like to do now right now? Close your eyes, let them speak the heart and invite the angels to help shape. I also assume that your son, just as he is, is ok. When I ask the angels, what children need, they tell me over and over: "It's important that they be perceived as they are. Nothing more, nothing less. "I call it," a witness of the life cycle "of the children are. For the life for which you can force witnesses like the Midaelsymbol a time leave. Welcome Brigitte (Brigitte Heynen, Switzerland / On Facebook)
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love, you are a wonderful and very dedicated mom. They have incredibly nurturing care of their child and cope with a lot of tragedies can. From your email I have read that you are a very loving woman who wants the best for their child. I would like to inform you that you do everything very great, and your child knows that.
Now it's time that you learn to think. You have given so much and slow, there is also a kind of exhaustion. You learn yourself and especially your intuition as a mother and wife to trust, in which you ask: "What I really want What I like What now? correct and fit for me, "
And above all, where do you imagine the mirror at least once a day: see the beautiful woman in it and say to myself every day:" You are great, I love you so much! You do it all so wonderful! Look how happy your son is, you have not done anything wrong. You have not done anything wrong. "Then you promise yourself to respect now better and rewarding to give presents. Maybe with a warm lavender bath, a beautiful book, a virtuous circle or a quiet walk, a beautiful CD with your favorite music, maybe with a meeting of dear friends.
you trust your child, you know your child and know when it's ready, it will set the Teeflasche aside. Similarly it when it is time for him to learn to read and write. Relax and do not be the pressure and uncertainty out of the other. Stand by yourself and your decisions as well as behind your way as you accompany your child, because that you are an inspiration for others, yourself and your son who loves you from the heart and is just as happy when his mom greater attention to himself. Enjoy your life and yourself, for you have done wonderful! (Tamara Frühbeiss, Germany; www.frühbeiss.de / on Facebook)
Dear P., your letter touched me, I experience but a similar situation. I will not comment on your ex husband or your son. I would like to put my attention on you, because if it goes well you will dissolve all the "extras" in delight. I now have a "good" and a "bad" news for you. With what shall I start? Ok. So the "bad" ! Petra
love this situation you have created yourself. You alone bear the responsibility for everything that you "show" your environment. Your ex husband is not the "evil", but he is a soul that loves you at a soul level in particular and has agreed to you "make" the villain in this life so that you make clear to you and heal old injuries they can last. That may sound strange at first, but freed up from the victim and gives you back your power.
The good news: You have the great opportunity to strengthen and heal from this experience stronger than ever to make a leap in consciousness. Then you're ready for a more mature and fulfilling relationship. You are still ways to see your dark side and to redeem. One of your issues is expected to be the self-worth. Maybe there are old patterns from your childhood that say that you are worthless and incapable? This tendency, I felt out of your line.
I'll have put together a panoply of tools, help yourself out of it what feels good for you. The help here is incomplete, I can speak out a few possibilities - you have to go in depth on the earthly plane itself
: Stand in the center! Who is important? YOU! Was once sensual woman, go dancing, go for a massage, buy sexy high heels, you put a new hairstyle, go to the opera, the cinema, the trendy restaurant, treat yourself a spa weekend with a good friend, go walk and looking forward to you from my heart alive and be healthy! Go now and in the silence and visualize the following: How would you like for example, in 3 years time? Pick any / n good psychotherapist in the accompanied you.
On the spiritual level: Leg thee angels symbol circles: For you, for your son, your ex husband How do you learn in the Ingrid Auer's book "Angels symbols 1-49. Key to the angelic world. If you want to create multiple groups, you can buy more decks the cards individually. Laying special emphasis on the theme "Cutting Circle. The angels will help to solve the connection to your husband on an energetic level. They help to make it happen in the separation of love and respect. Only if you really are with your husband in peace, is to separate completely and you can go on in life. As long as there resentment on your part, you're bound energy in him and up the block. Use
Angel / Master Aura Essences! Spontaneous me Saint German comes to mind, and Mary Magdalene, and Serapis Bey. Let's test out what is best for you. Use for home the aura essence "Energetic cleaning". When you meet your husband, covering up in the angel-aura-essence "Energetic definition. A special tip: Do not let pass by Ingrid Auer your personal angel symbol of the angels and customize. Example, you may order a new beginning on or forgiveness.
Book Reviews: "Love yourself and do not care who you marry" (Eva-Maria Zurhorst), "Zero Limits, The Secret Hawaiian System" (Joe Vitale, Ihaleakala Hew Len), "I forgive! The radical departure from victimhood "(Colin Tipping)" I am the light. The little soul speaks to God "(Neale Donald Walsh)
Last but not least: Take your intuition finally important enough to trust her! Do not indicative of the opinion of others but only to your heart! I sincerely wish you all the best on your journey! (Manuela Luncer, www.light-love-healing.com)